You will see here, she uses her classic technique of letting someone down as if its nothing anyone cant do about it. "The last dance" sort of thing.
She is a CLASSIC covert, fragile narcissist. Everything she does is designed to make you go crazy. And the thing is, she warns you in the beginning! If you don't believe me, check this video out on YT by a clinical psychologist: search for Covert Narcissists SECRET CrazyMaking Communication Weapon They Use to ABUSE
3:03 is the good stuff.
It will save you.